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Becoming the Perfect Guest

We have all received an invitation before. To a birthday, a social, a ball or lunch. Invitations come in many ways. You might get a hand written one in the mail, an evite or an oral invite. With the holidays approaching you may have been invited to someone’s home or have invited people to your home. In Kathy Bertone’s book, “The Art of the Visit”, she gives us some tips on being the perfect host and guest.

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Friendship 101

One of the things I love most about Army life is the Army family. We need each other. The Army family is a support system. At the AUSA conference this year Tara Crooks, co-founder of Army Wife Network, said, “Military families are very diverse.” That is so true. We as individuals are unique. We have quirks, opinions, different likes and dislikes and we are a family. So, how do we build friendships? How do we find our place in the family?

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Know Your Stuff

Our Military life is a nomadic one. We move from place to place. We pack up. We unpack. We look for a place to live. We might buy, rent or take Government housing. Oh, the places and choices! Whether you are a first- timer or an old-timer it’s a different experience every time.

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Me Time

As Army Spouses we take care of a lot of stuff. The kids, housing, husbands uniforms, pets, grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, Family Readiness Group (FRG), volunteering, mentoring and the list goes on. We give a lot of ourselves to better our family and our community. All the things we do is commendable. Often, we forget to take care of ourselves.

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The Back to School Plan

Whether you boohoo or whoop with joy when it’s back to school time it helps to be organized. What do you do with all those back to school clothes and school supplies? Do you eat on the go because of the after school activities? Are the mornings wrought with angst because book bags, homework and permission slips are misplaced or forgotten about? With a little organization school days can be smooth and hassle free.

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Partaay!

Does the idea of hosting a party or event fill you with dread? Do you experience anxiety while planning and preparing? Preparing for a party can be stressful. As a hostess you want everything to be perfect and go smoothly. I have done my fair share of hosting.

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Building Army Strong Friendships

To create and enjoy lasting friendships takes effort and skill. Add our nomadic Army lifestyle and the effect can be daunting. Some people make friends easily, but others making and keeping friends isn’t easy. Once, a good friend told me I was hard to get to know. I agree with her. I don’t open up easily and I have lots of insecurities that make me hesitate in friendship building. I have learned ways to meet people that are comfortable for me.

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