by trueblueinfantrywife » Mon Dec 21, 2009 4:08 pm
When my husband was home before he deployed and he would tell me when him and his guys would have to go out in the field for a while, and I would stay up most of the night, 6 months preggo with a 2yr old to care for in the morning, and bake enough cookies for all of them to enjoy when they leave on the bus. I also make it a priority to invite my husbands soldiers to a homecooked meal whether it be just a weeknight with chili or Thanksgiving or a Superbowl party. I'm only 23 but one of the guys calls me "mom" and all the other guys look forward to seeing my husband when they board their buses for training because they know he has cookies with him. I make it a priority to be as involved in the FRG I can be and since my husband deployed last Spring I've worked up to becoming the Treasurer and a Key Caller. I am constantly on my phone with other wives who I don't look at or treat like other wives, but who are my friends and sisters as well. I get to help them with how to fill out paperwork when it asks for the husbands unit or just a general ear for them to vent to because they haven't heard from their husband. I love being able to make a difference in their deployment no matter what it is. I love them all as my own family and try to do whatever is in my means to make their life easier whether it be paying outta pocket to make our company's gift stockings to the soldiers a little thicker or running to the store when another wife needs ginger-ale and she has 3 little girls at home and is to sick to do so herself. I have aspirations to be an actual FRG Leader someday and can't wait to see how big of a difference I can make.